Later that same year (July Quarter 1851), Nathan Henry married Joyce Anne Warwick in Westminster. [England & Wales, FreeBMD Marriage Index, 1837-1915, vol 1, p.550.]
From this marriage, three children are shown in the Army Chaplains' Baptismal Registers:
Drusilla Mary
Fanny Elizabeth
Joyce Ann
At least two other children were born later:
Isabella Martha
William Thomas
Birth registered
Drusilla Mary Henry, January Quarter 1852, St Margaret's Westminster.
According to the Westminster Baptismal Register for St John the Evangelist, Smith Square:
Drusilla Mary, daughter of Nathan and Joyce Ann Henry, born 22 January 1852, baptised 1852. NH's occupation is given as "Schoolmaster". [PB]
Lillington Street, Pimlico, once lay between Charlwood and Tachbrook Streets. It was badly bombed in 1941 and is now covered by the Lillington Gardens Estate (built 1964-1972). See e.g. westendatwar.org.uk/page_id__233_path__0p28p.aspx, which has a map and several photographs.
PB: Why "Drusilla"? I suspect it was a quite unusual name at the time. [Actually, I think it was probably Joyce Ann's mother's name. CHECK.].
Among the few Drusillas I have found are Augustus's wife Livia Drusilla, and the Emperor Caligula's sister, Julia Drusilla, whom he declared his heir and a goddess (see e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julia_Drusilla_) Also his daughter (assassinated with her parents when she was 1).
http://appellationmountain.net/drusilla-baby-name-day:
There's a Drusilla in the New Testament ... the daughter of Herod Agrippa, Drusilla was married to Felix, the Roman governor of Judea. Felix and Drusilla heard the apostle Paul speak when he was captive in Caesarea...Drusilla perished at Pompeii in 79 AD...A handful of girls were named Drusilla in the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, too.
From http://nameberry.com/babyname/Drusilla:
Drusilla is an ancient Roman name, (probably) borne by descendants of Antony and Cleopatra...Drusilla appears in the New Testament as the wife of Felix (twin alert?), and later made appearances in Thomas Hardy's Jude the Obscure [1894], Wilkie Collins's The Moonstone [1868] and Faulkner's The Unvanquished [1934 onward].
http://www.baby2see.com/names/1880s.html:
In the 1880s, Drusilla was the 884th most-common girl's name [US].
1861 Census
Cannon, Parish of Ash, Farnborough, Surrey
Nathan Henry, Head, Married, 32, Labourer in Camp Forage ["Stour"?], born East Indies, British Subject.
Joyce A[nn] Henry, Wife, Married, 35, Little Hadham, Herts.
Drusilla M[ary] Henry, Daughter, 9, Scholar, Westminster, Middlesex.
Fanny E[lizabeth] Henry, Daughter, 4, Scholar, Thames Ditton, Surrey.
Joyce A[nn] Henry, Daughter, 1, Aldershott, Hants.
[PB]
Death registered
Joyce Ann Henry [first wife], aged 42, June Quarter 1868, Brighton.
Marriage registered [2nd]
Nathan Henry married Mary Elizabeth Domine at Westminster, St Margaret's in the July Quarter of 1869.
Meanwhile, in Bradford, at the home of Nathan Henry's first wife's sisters:
1871 Census
116, Leeds Road, Bradford.
Fanny Warwick [presumably NH's sister-in-law], 43, Head, Stationer, born Little Hadham, Herts.
Martha Warwick [sister-in-law], 41, Sister, Mantle Maker, Little Hadham, Herts.
John W? Reynolds, 22, Nephew, Clerk (Stationers), Dundalk, Ireland.
Drusilla M Henry [daughter], 19, Librarian, Pimlico, London.
Fanny E Henry [daughter], 13, Niece, Thames Ditton, Surrey.
Joyce Anne Henry [daughter], 11, Niece, Unmarried, born Aldershott, Hampshire.
Isabella M Henry [daughter], 6, Niece, Unmarried, born Brighton, Sussex.
William T Henry [son], Nephew, 3, born Brighton, Sussex.
A male boarder, John Archer, 25, Brewer's Traveller, born Yorkshire, is also shown.
[PB: Why are all the children in Bradford? Why are they staying with Fanny Warwick and her sister Martha? What relation are they? They do not appear to be guests on holiday.
NB: Fanny is the name of Joyce's sister and her second daughter.
Actually, according to his memoir, these must be his unmarried sisters - his two sisters-in-law, who looked after his children when his wife died. But are they also estranged from his new, young wife?]
Marriage registration - a minor mystery!
E&W marriages 1837-2008 vol. 9B, p. 1319.
John William Pawson married someone (presumably Drusilla Mary Henry), April Quarter 1877, Bradford, but I cannot find DMH's record of marriage to him.
E&W marriages 1837-2008 vol. 9B, p. 129 says Drusilla Mary Henry married Frederick William Ainsworth, April Quarter 1877, Bradford.
However 9B p 129 says FWA married either Drusilla Mary Henry or Annie Elizabeth Crossley. And England Marriages 1538-1973 says AEC married Abraham Hurst. [PB]
1881 Census
10, Westfield [?] Crescent, Bradford, Yorkshire.
John W. Pawson, Head, Married, aged 30, Bookkeeper (Stuff Trade), born Bradford, Yorkshire.
Drusilla M. Pawson, Wife, Married, [no occupation shown], 29, born London.
[PB]
1891 Census
10, Westfield Terrace, Bradford, Yorkshire, England.
John W. Pawson, Head, Married, 40, Book Keeper, born Bradford, Yorkshire.
Drusilla M. Pawson, Wife, Married, 39, [no occupation shown], born London.
[PB]
1901 Census
15, Swinton Place, Bradford, Yorkshire, England.
John W. Pawson, Head, Married, aged 50, Stuff Merchant's Book Keeper, born Bradford, Yorkshire.
Drusilla M. Pawson, Wife, Married, 49, [no occupation shown], born Pimlico, London.
[PB]
1911 Census
15, Swinton Place, Great Horton, Bradford.
John William Pawson, Head, Married, Stuff Merchant's Clerk, aged 60, Bradford, Yorkshire.
Drusilla Mary Pawson, Wife, Married, 59, [no occupation shown], born Pimlico, London.[PB]
Death registration
England & Wales deaths 1837-2007.
Drusilla M Pawson, aged 74, September Quarter 1926, Bradford.
[PB]
Birth registered
Birth registered April Quarter 1857, Kingston, Surrey.
[PB note: check the entries for Fanny Elizabeth Henry in Ancestry, e.g. marriage 1877 to Nelson William Noakes, Bradford (Father Nathan Henry is a "Librarian"), Joyce is witness.
1871 Census, 66 North Parade Bradford, Nelson is 37, a Hair Dresser, born London, Surrey. She is 24. 2 daughters Ethel 3 and Elizabeth 10 months. They have a General Servant, Eunice Hudson, 16.
Death, 84, Dec? 1941, Stoke Newington, London.
See her will index:
http://interactive.ancestry.co.uk/1904/31874_222538-00073/684737?backurl=http%3a%2f%2fsearch.ancestry.co.uk%2fcgi-bin%2fsse.dll%3fdb%3dUKProbateCal%26h%3d684737%26indiv%3dtry%26o_vc%3dRecord%253aOtherRecord%26rhSource%3d7579&ssrc=&backlabel=ReturnRecord
Baptism
Great Horton, St John, West Yorkshire.
January 1 1865, Isabella Martha, daughter of Nathan and Joyce Ann Henry, abode Brighton, Riding Officer Coast Guard.